What I Need To Stop Worrying About
February 06, 2021Hey guys,
It's safe to say we all get anxious and self-conscious about different things about ourselves but after the year we've had, we need to stop putting these pressures on ourselves. I thought by sharing with you what I need to stop worrying about might help encourage you to stop worrying about maybe the same or similar situations. So let's jump straight into it...
- My weight - Even though I'm a size 8/10 and people say they would love to be that size I'm always so self-conscious and have never been seen to wear tight outfits or crop tops as they make me feel uncomfortable. I struggle a lot with stomach pains so this could be a reason so I need to learn this is out of my control. Also, I need to remember that the number on the scales is just a number and that different brands and different styles aren't gonna be the same size.
- What others think
- What is out of my control
- Work
- Scenarios that haven't happened yet
- What could go wrong/don't go to plan
- The past mistakes
- Unimportant people - Need to start letting things go.
'More smiling, less worrying. More compassion, less judgement. More blessed, less stressed. More love, less hate.' - Roy T. Bennett
We all need to make ourselves a number one priority.
- Allocate time for yourself
- Be kind to yourself
- Self love & self care
- Surround yourself with the right people
- Don't be afraid to ask for help
- Acknowledge your feelings
- Listen to your body's needs
'Accept what is, let go of what was and have faith in what will be.'
Hope you enjoyed this post as I found writing this up just took a weight off my shoulder and I can always reflect back to ensure I keep my mind at ease. I hope you liked this kind of post. Let me know 💖
Nadine Alex x
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9 comments
I struggle with those thoughts myself. My identity issues really did a number on my body image issues and the racism I endured left me with depression
ReplyDeleteAww I hope that you have found a way to stop worrying about them insecurities, you should love yourself <3. You should have to deal with racism. The world can be so cruel sometimes :( Sending you lots of love and wishes x
DeleteThis is so very true! I need to stop worrying about a lot of these things too!
ReplyDeleteMake yourself your number one priority and don't care what others think because I always have to remember that they are probably insecure too. Sending you love and wishes x
DeleteThank you for sharing, also great mantras.I hope you can achieve everything you want.
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Thank you so much. And hoping you do too x
DeleteThank you for reading x
ReplyDeleteLove this so much! I have been trying to be more forgiving to myself lately and prioritize self-care but of course, it's so hard sometimes! Thanks for sharing x
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Definitely it is a challenge but it's such a rewarding challenge, even if we set out to make it a daily challenge? Thank you for reading, sending lots of love & wishes x
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